Four WaysTo Connect
Every card in Yarning serves a purpose. YOU cards reveal who you are, THEM cards show how you're seen, MEMORIES cards bring stories to life, and REFLECTION cards spark insight.
Share About Yourself
Low-friction self-disclosure that helps the table learn what you're like. Answer in first person — these are your stories, your preferences, your world.
Habits, preferences, and small joys
Comfort rituals and routines
Skills you're quietly proud of
Heavy vulnerability or trauma
What's a smell that instantly takes you somewhere?
See and Be Seen
Perspective-taking that helps people feel understood. Guess what you think about someone, then let them reveal the truth. It's about noticing each other.
What recharges them or brings them joy
Strengths and things they're good at
What they're curious about
Judgement or anything that corners someone
What's a topic they can talk about for hours?
Tell Your Stories
Story extraction that turns conversation into vivid moments. These prompts pull out the tales worth telling — the funny, the unexpected, the meaningful.
Laughter, misadventures, and unexpected turns
Place-based memories and inside jokes
Trips, meals, and small acts of kindness
Broad life summaries or traumatic events
Tell us about a time you laughed so hard you couldn't recover.
Go a Little Deeper
Meaning-making with gentle depth. These cards invite insight without therapy vibes — what you're learning, what you value, how you're growing.
What you want more of in life
Gratitude, growth, and perspective shifts
Values and what home means to you
Coercive vulnerability or conflict-mining
What's something you've learned about yourself recently?
What's your 'comfort' movie, game, or ritual?
What's a topic they can talk about for hours?
Tell us about a time you laughed so hard you couldn't recover.
A trip, mission, or adventure that became an inside joke.
What's something you've learned about yourself recently?
What's a skill you'd love to master?
What's your 'comfort' movie, game, or ritual?
What's a topic they can talk about for hours?
Tell us about a time you laughed so hard you couldn't recover.
A trip, mission, or adventure that became an inside joke.
What's something you've learned about yourself recently?
What's a skill you'd love to master?
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